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Since writing my first blog post several months back, a million blog topics have passed through my mind and I found myself wishing there was some magical way of hooking up my keyboard to my brain so I could just think things but didn’t have to actually type and poof! A fab blog post would appear…No such luck and it is probably a good thing, could you imagine how much more pressure we would put on ourselves to do even more stuff if computer mind reading were possible and yes I realize it is probably already being done but my point is, it’s  not mainstream yet, thank-goodness!

Where to begin…hmm.  A quick rundown on the busy life of a stay at home Jewelry/Collar Designing Mom to 4 skin (one newly acquired through marriage :-) ) kids and 3 fur (one newly acquired through a kijii ad :-) ) kids.

  • Our beautiful unplanned, hectic but blissful Wedding in Jan was followed by an even more beautiful, restful, romantic, idyllic  Honeymoon Vaca in the Riviera Maya Mexico..Boy, I tell ya, whenever life gets crazy busy, I close my eyes for a moment and am right back on the beach in my beautiful shaded cabana with gauzy curtains blowing hypnotically in wind and the sound of the ocean lulling me into a mid day dreamy state. My book, hat, sunglasses, towel, sunscreen, cool drink and bikini are the only items on my to do list… I am calm, peaceful and intensely happy
  • Returning from Paradise early Feb brought us back to reality in a flash and back to work albeit our wonderful reality. I really do love my life, I  love being married to a man I adore, I love that we both have incredibly well adjusted overall great kids and that our blended family somehow works. I feel blessed that I have created not one but two careers by following what I passionately love and by not limiting  my abilities. I love that I  get up every morning stare out at the most gorgeous river view and go to work in my jammies. But the reality that comes with being self employed is that YOU (nobody else) have to make things happen, and is my norm, I did, big time, lol….Off to Sandy Paws we went!
  • Early March we attended our first show of the year and our first time ever at Sandy Paws Greyhound Gathering held at  Jekyll Island Resort in Georgia.  Feb became a blur as I holed up in my studio creating fabulous (or at least what I thought were FAB Charly Blair Jewelry creations) I have always wanted to attend the Sandy Paws Gathering but as luck would have it, the relatively small event had a limit on the number of collar vendors they would allow so Around the Hounds had to stay home, but the cool thing is Charly Blair did get the invite and what an amazing time we had!! We were over the top thrilled with the overwhelming response  to Charly Blair Designs and I am already looking forward to next year as this event is bound to become one of our favorites…Gorgeous location, incredible event organization (everything was smooth as silk) http://www.sandypaws.org/ We met the coolest people,  including my new  best friends from the www.followthathound.com group. To anybody considering adopting a retired Racing Greyhound this wonderful program was developed and is directed by my web friend (now finally met in person) Cathie Lambert and in essence allows you to pre-adopt a racing greyhound puppy and then you can follows it’s career from racing through to retirement…I know where our next greyhound is coming from :-)
  • No rest for the wicked, no sooner than we unpacked from Sandy Paws that I began preparing for my next show or more like a showing or display at a retail location. I still don’t know how to describe this type of Jewelry I have ventured into…My non dog jewelry?  My non doggie style  jewels? My jewelry line  not just for dog owners? My jewelry line outside the dog world? Uh, umm, well i guess if you didn’t know me from the dog/greyhound world I guess it is ok to just call it Charly Blair Designs, which is what I did….By the end of March we had set up our retail display in Paul Haddad’s gorgeous downtown location Hair Salon http://www.artistic-hair-tanning.com/and a new chapter has begun…..We have lots of exciting events and specials planned  mostly for our local market unless of course you  feel the urge to come visit Canada’s Capital Region, they you are more than welcome to attend/visit tee hee. Our first big event will be an Open House Red Carpet affair at the Salon, look for dates TBA.
  • No rest yet. Almost from the moment I finished setting up shop at Artistic Hair I had to immerse myself in preparation for our 2nd biggest show of the year and our 8th annual trip to Greyhounds in Gettysburg Event http://www.greyhoundsingettysburg.com/ at the end of April. This has always been on of my favorite events, a veritable feast for the hound loving eyes as hundreds of retired racing greyhounds and their owners make their way to this small historical town to celebrate the breed and participate in the events and SHOP!!  Did I mention the the GIG event is held under tents each year in the parking lot of a fabu OUTLET MALL, how much better can it get? We are so thankful for all our loyal and returning  collar customers who have supported our efforts all these years and to our new Charly Blair Designs Customers who raved over their purchases (making my day times 10) and offered such encouragement with their oooohs and awwwws all of whom helped make this year’s event our most successful ever!…Robin and I thank-you wholeheartedly :-)
  • Well that brings me to now and what’s next? WHEWWWW! As I type I am thinking that a little down time would be just marvaaaaalous. Time do some house work and laundry  (ha ha, just kidding) maybe catch up in the yard  (hmmm, that sounds a little like work) Get the pool ready for Summer (Oh ROBIN) or just hang with the family and get to know our new little IGGY guy Sid (did I mention Sid yet?)….That’s another blog but here’s a pic of Sid, fitting right in a feeling at home with Chester and Isabelle

 

I’m married, whew!

Right up until the ceremony was scheduled to begin at 4:30 fri afternoon, I wasn’t sure if a wedding was actually going to take place… That Murphy’s law thing kicked in for us BIG TIME this last week, when everything possible that could go wrong did indeed go wrong. But interestingly enough everything that could go right seemed to well, go right… It’s like we had two warring factions of fate, one side trying desperately to interrupt our process and one side miraculously moving heaven and earth to make it happen for us….The good side won, YEAH!!

I am officially Charlene Blair, or Char Blair, Charly Blair, Mrs. Robin Blair. (OK may be not so much this one … it’s a little too antiquated for me)

In the midst of everything going wrong my thoughts were, maybe this is what happens when you have an unplanned last minute wedding… Maybe that’s  why people spend all those months planning and stressing so that there will be no last min scramble and all details will be taken care of???? Am I right?? 

I was almost ready to give into this school of thought and then Robin reminded me that even though they spent over a year planning his first wedding there was still tons of last min scrambling and things going right and wrong. It’s the nature of the beast … planned or unplanned thing just go right or wrong for a number of reasons. Some are in your control, others aren’t.

 The trick is to realize it and to not stress over the things you can’t control….Let go of that worry, trust the universal law of attraction and all will be well. This is what got me through Fri. … the belief that all would work out.

And my gawd, how it did! My imperfect day became one of the most perfect and glorious days of my life! All the stuff that went wrong are now memorable stories that help remind us of our journey. Everything going right would have been just toooo boring!! lol ….

Our biggest hurdle, roadblock, deal breaker, the buck stops here, do not pass go or collect $200.00 dollars issue turned out to be in the  Marriage Certificate or should I say lack thereof.

In order to get a Marraige Certificate, Robin and I both needed certified copies of our Divorce decrees…Not a problem for Robin, down to the local court registry, in out, done!

Obtaining mine on the other hand turned out to be an exercise in the everything that could go wrong, would go wrong thing. My call to the Campbell River Court house went kinda like this…

” Hi, I would like to find out about obtaining a certified copy of my divorce certificate…You see I am getting remarried in a couple weeks and I am phoning from another Province, what do I need to do to make this happen ASAP?”

Oh, OK it will cost me $31.00, not a problem, can I give you my visa # I really am in a hurry for this…Really,  I can’t pay with Visa? “”How about paypal, that’s quick and easy, I just need an e-mail addy…No, you don’t even know what paypal is?”Hmmmmm…”OK how about I just wire the money directly from my account, that’s fast and simple, I do it all the time, just need an e-mail addy” 

“Your kidding right, you mean you will only accept a cheque that’s it and I have to snail mail it to you all the way from Ontario?”

 Gaaaahhhh….”OK fine, I am going to Express Post it out today, I will also include an Express Post envelope so that you can get it right back to me. Everything should be fine, Express Post is Guaranteed two day delivery and comes with tracking and we have almost two weeks, so plenty of time”

Thursday Jan. 14th, the day before our supposed wedding, I anxiously run to the mailbox to see if my Canada Post Express two day guaranteed envelope had arrived after 10 business days…There was still time to get our marriage certificate, I would have liked to have had this all taken care of but whatever, so there was a glitch and the envelope went letter mail instead of express, it happens, not to worry, it WILL be here today, it HAS to be here today…..

It never showed…SHOULD I PANIC??

Turns out my precious cargo letter got returned to sender and was still at the CR Court House the night before my wedding 

That was last Thursday evening…And these were the facts.

A.I had no official certified copy of a divorce cetif in my hand only a faxed certif from the CR courthouse to the Ottawa courthouse.

B.I had no guarantee that the Ottawa courthouse would accept a faxed copy in order to issue us a Marriage License.

C.I now had nowhere to get married…With only 2 early morning slots left at the courthouse…I mean how could I get married at 9:30 am when my hair appointment wasn’t even till 11:30 hahahaha…. I put two and two together and realized we had to come up with plan B

Plan B

Google search “quicky weddings in Ottawa” click on first link

http://www.avalleywedding.com

send somewhat desperate sounding e-mail to Rev Dave and wait…

E-mails back right away with the best news…. Not a problem, we can fit you in, what time would you like the ceremony to start?   Ahhhhhhh, tomorrow is going to be a good day!!!

Now all we need is that last little detail acquiring  the marraige license and we are good to go!

Fri. Jan 15th – Am I getting married today???

At the Ottawa courthouse by the 9: 00 my scheduled 4:30 wedding in the hands of the lady behind the counter, will she won’t she, will she won’t she, tap, tap, tap….. After going through a few higher ups, the word came down, YES they would issue us the wedding certificate using a fax as proof of my divorce YEAH!!!….whew, time to breath! Just need to produce two pieces of ID and we’re outta here.

HMMMMM My drivers licence is ALWAYS right here, what the??

While Robin raced home to find my Drivers Licence then back to court house to start the process all over again (bless his heart and patience) I raced off to get my hair done.

Now here where it gets good….After not being able to contact my regular stylist earlier this week, I was resigned to the fact I would be doing my own hair for the wedding but then  miraculously I get a call from Paul of  http://www.artistic-hair-tanning.com/ we had talked before Christmas about having Charly Blair jewels in Paul’s salon and he was calling to talk business….I took advantageof Paul’s perfectly timed call and pleaded my case….Not only was he able to fit me in on Fri. but he seemed genuinely thrilled and honored to create my wedding hair style…Wow what a pampering I got at Paul’s salon, not only did i absolutely LOVE the gorgeous hair created to compliment my hair and Jewels but I also received a complimentary paraffin wax treatment from my hands AND had my nails polished to perfection. Finally time to relax and enjoy the day.

Then the salon phone rang and from my chair I heard….Char, yes but she is not finished yet, silence, yes, just a min…..

Someone on the phone is looking for Char and says it’s URGENT….They need her signature on some document or she CAN’T get married, and uh, she is supposed to turn her phone on!

OH CRAP!  Robin you must really love me if you still want to marry me after putting you through this I was thinking as i turned my phone on and his saw 10 missed calls.

Shortly there after Robin arrived at the salon to get my signature.I was blanketed behind a salon cape so Robin wouldn’t get a peek at his bride.,I was thankful as I figured his patience may have been running a little thin by then.

Finally with gorgeous fabulous hair and nails, and a call from Robin saying we were good to go, I was off to the hotel to relax, primp and dress for the wedding with the help of my Best friend Karen

For the remainder of my wedding day story I am going to let Karen take over…..Here is her account of what happened on our way to the Chapel

By KAREN RIOPELLE

“Goin’ to the chapel and we’re gonna get married
Goin’ to the chapel and we’re gonna get married
Gee, I really love you and we’re gonna get married
Goin’ to the chapel of love”

What else could we do but sing? … The wedding was scheduled for 4:30 at a quaint little chapel in North Gower. At exactly that moment, Char and I were driving down the 416 with no known address.  We only knew  that Robin was waiting somewhere, with his family and best friends and a reverend, for his bride to appear … but we didn’t know where. The name and address of the chapel lay on the seat of Char’s car back at the hotel and the cell phones of all members of the wedding party were turned off. So I ask again, what more could we do but sing? :-) “Sing with me”, I say. And sure enough, my oh-so-beautiful and non-conventional friend does just that.

Charlene is brilliantly creative and fun and talented and so filled with an energy that inspires and raises the level of excitement in everything we do!! But she is also a woman who patiently listens before sharing her wisdom, often so eloquently spoken. She loves and trusts so deeply. Through her words and actions and even simply through her essence, she truly has contributed so enormously to my life! THAT is who Char is to me … And I love her very much!

And then there’s Robin. The man who speaks so little but when he does I listen so very carefully. To me he is a man so black and white, so good versus bad. He is a man that I am so proud to call my ‘brother’. He laughs with abandon. He lives with purity and goodness in his soul. And he loves. Char would be the first to agree that it is through his patience and certainty, that two of my very best friends in the world made it through the journey that brought us all together on this day. I love you Robin.

Thank you Char and Robin for all of the treasured moments that you allowed me to share on this day. I am truly blessed.

Karen xox